The Voice of Peace, Positivity, and Love Can Override Hatefulness, Negativity Meanness and Strife Pass It On #World Peace#Journal

The following piece first appeared on my Facebook timeline this morning.

I’d be ever grateful if you’d pass this on.

Love and Light can prevail. Must Prevail else our world will be lost.

Here now is this morning’s post…

Good morning everyone!
Today, for me, it’s going to be a wonderful day.
Just because I’ve made the decision that it is so.
This morning when I woke up, after I’d freshened up and gotten dressed for the day, I decided I wanted a nice cup of hot tea. Sometimes on a brisk rainy morning like this morning, nothing but a wonderful strong, hot cup of tea with sugar and hot milk will do.
Once I had that to hand, I sat down to scroll through FB notifications while my computer was booting up and I found a hateful comment to one of my posts.
At first I commented back to confront the person, then I had a thought…
“What if I just cut that off at the knees? Just get rid of that negativity right here and now?”
I deleted the hateful comment, and my reply. Then I went to the person’s timeline and simply blocked them.
I’d noted of late their comments had become snarkier and snarkier, and not just toward me and my posts but to other mutual friends we had. I decided negativity and meanness begets negativity and meanness and there’s enough of that floating around in the world as it is.
Look folks…
I get down and out too. Sometimes I get on a raging hateful grumpy rant. Sometimes I can be a real bitch.
I know life can be a crap-shoot and that at times it comes up double shit.
The post this person commented on yesterday evening was a good positive post. I was talking about what I’d gotten done yesterday and how good it felt to have gotten it done but that I was tired, and their comment was hateful and out of line.
There’s no reason to go out of one’s way to be mean and hateful .
I believe that like attracts like. I believe that if we try to find the good in things no matter how rotten they get sometimes it makes the bad easier to deal with and in the end will lift us up.
A good friend says, “We’re the overflow of what we think about.” I believe that. I believe if we are always grumbling, finding fault with everything, being negative and argumentative then that’s all we’re going to get back.
When I went to their timeline to block them I read through some of their posts first. I wanted to see if maybe they were going through some hard time and maybe there was some reason for the unwarranted outburst, but what I found when I did shed no light on the issue and in fact, what I saw there was one negative mean hateful post making jabs at everyone and everything after another, so in the end, I chose to block.
I’m working hard to live a better life, and I’m not going to allow someone’s ridiculous negativity and anger, no matter the reason upset all the hard work I’ve done.
I’ve got some very specific goals for the upcoming year. As I’ve looked back on 2019, I find I have accomplished a lot of what I sat out to do this year.
Some things I didn’t accomplish are still works in progress, and will come into 2020 with me. Others I’ve realized weren’t meant to be and I’ve let them go.
I’m determined to continue to be successful in my writing, and my marketing business, and also I’m determined to make it so I can buy my house.
I want to finish fencing in my yard, and eventually I want to get the storage building wired for electricity and put in a small window air conditioner and space heater and start using it as my office.
Each time I go into it winter or summer I realize it is never too hot or cold and so I think it must have some insulation in it and I’d like to create a real studio out there.
Anyhow, I hope all yawl have a fantastic day.
Sorry for the long post, but this morning I just had things I wanted to say.
Normally I put them into my journal and sometimes on my blog but this morning I needed the support of my Facebook Family.
Love to you all.

About Patty L. Fletcher

About Patty October 2021 Patty and her guide dog Blue. Patty has her hair tied back in a low ponytail and rests her right hand on Blue's head. She wears a white shirt with a pink and purple butterfly on the front and light blue shorts. Blue is a handsome black lab. He wears a brown leather harness with a handle attached to the back and is smiling at the camera as he sits in front of Patty. In the background is a brick building with white, windowed doors and a flowerpot overflowing with pink and yellow blooms. Updated – October 2021 Patty Fletcher is a single mother with a beautiful daughter, of whom she is enormously proud. She has a great son-in-law and six beautiful grandchildren. From April 2011 through September 2020, she owned and handled a black Labrador from The Seeing Eye® named King Campbell Lee Fletcher A.K.A. Bubba. Sadly, after a long battle with illness on September 24, 2020, King Campbell went to the Rainbow Bridge where all is peace and love. In July 2021, she returned to The Seeing Eye® and was paired with a Black Labrador Golden Retriever cross named Blue. PATTY’S BLINDNESS… Patty was born one and a half months premature. Her blindness was caused by her being given too much oxygen in the incubator. She was partially sighted until 1991, at which time she lost her sight due to an infection after cataract surgery and high eye pressure. She used a cane for 31 years before making the change to a guide dog. WHERE SHE LIVES AND WORKS… Currently, Patty lives and works in Kingsport, Tenn. She’s the creator and owner of Tell-It-To-The-World Marketing (Author, Blogger, Business Assist), The Writer’s Grapevine Online Magazine and the creator and host of the Talk to Tell-It-To-The-World Marketing Podcast. WRITING GOAL… Patty writes with the goal of bridging the great chasm which separates the disabled from the non-disabled. HOBBIES… Patty’s hobbies include reading, music, and attending book clubs via Zoom. FAVORITE TUNES… Some of her favorite types of tunes are classic rock, rhythm and blues, and classic country. FAVORITE READS… Patty enjoys fantasy, science fiction, and books about the supernatural. She loves books by Stephen King, Dean Koontz, Norah Roberts, and many more. Some favorite books include Norah Roberts’ Hide Away, Stephen King’s Dark Tower series, J.K. Rowling’s Harry Potter series, Robert Jordan’s Wheel of Time series, and J.R.R. Tolkien’s Lord of the Rings series. SPIRITUAL FAITH… Patty describes herself as a spiritual Walker. She says she knows both Mother Goddess and Father God and embraces all they have to offer. CONTACT… Email: Visit: And: As well as:
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4 Responses to The Voice of Peace, Positivity, and Love Can Override Hatefulness, Negativity Meanness and Strife Pass It On #World Peace#Journal

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    • Patty says:

      Thanks so much for sharing this.
      This does my heart good.
      I’d hoped more would share this.
      We must start trying to bring about change, and to spread peace and love seems to me a good place to start.
      Thanks again.


  2. So true. I believe you did the right thing. I’ve had to block negative people myself, both online and in person, and found it a wise decision. Thanks for being positive! I also look forward to hearing more about your goals for your house!


    • Patty says:


      First, thanks again for sharing. You made my day.

      Next, yes, we must block toxic people from our lives no matter who they are or where they come from.

      Yesterday I met with my Life Bridge life coach and took yet more steps to tighten my budget so that I can get the debts paid off I need to and then I will begin creating active credit.

      I’ve a plan to use a credit card with a small credit limit and pay my landscaping bill this summer with it.

      I’m already budgeted for that and it would allow active credit.

      Thanks for your interest and support.

      Love to you my friend.


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